Do you have a child who won’t eat dinner, picks at their food or will only eat certain things?
Even the best of eaters may sometimes not eat vegetables, fruit or certain foods.
You may wonder ‘why is my child such a fussy eater’?!
It certainly can be one of the most stressful topics for any parent!

Tips to encourage children to eat a wider range of foods
Some things to consider
- Have they always been fussy or is it something that has started recently?
- Is it about control and independence?
- Is there an intolerance to any foods, that make them feel uncomfortable after they eat?
- Food neophobia – scared of trying new foods – sometimes children need to see a new food, touch it, smell it, see others eating it many many times before they will put it in their mouth
How we learn to eat is based on sensory perception, size, colour, smell, taste. This involves a lot of nerves and muscles! You may find that children like their food to be separated on the plate and that foods with mixed textures, flavours and colours are not a child’s favourite eg. stews or casseroles.
Understanding what your child does or doesn’t like about food can help you to interpret how they can eat better.

Tips to get your child to eat more food
- Eat with your child, even if they don’t eat everything you eat. As they see you eat foods they are fearful of, they will become less fearful over time.
- Don’t bribe them. It will make it sound like those foods e.g. ice cream, will be better than the foods we want to them to eat.
- Children will stop eating when they have had enough. Try a phrase like ‘You don’t have to eat anymore but you do need to come and sit with us whilst we eat’.
- Make veggies taste nice! Do you like to eat food that is boring? Try adding fried garlic or spring onions. Try putting veggies into a sauce like tomato, or a soy based dressing. Try not to hide them though and make sure they know that veggies are in there; this helps to develop trust with food and the food you give them.
- Take your child shopping and let them pick a new food every week. Also let them help you in the kitchen, so they will start to trust these foods better.
- Deconstruct meals so that ingredients are separated and individual, so they can add/eat what they want.
- Serve a favourite flavour with a food they haven’t tried before.
- Try not to ask them if they like the food or talk about the food. Instead try chatting about other things. For example, talk about your day or what you would like to do the next day. If you do talk about the food try to get them to tell you if they don’t like the taste or the texture, this will help you with future food ideas.
- Remember to smile through these meal times, it will help lower stress levels!
Commitment and consistency is key with how you address this issue
I hope you have success trying out some of these ideas with your child.










